I chose to go home to say good-bye to my aunt (may she rest in peace) and spend time with my family. I want nothing left unsaid before my trip. None of us know how long we have on this earth. Sometimes we just need to be reminded of that to put things into perspective. It’s the last gift my aunt gave me.
My family have taught me many wonderful things but what I value most is how they taught me the meaning of ‘love’ and ‘family’. I’m not saying this because I have a ‘perfect’ family. My family has had its fair share of trials and tribulations but when we cry, we cry together and when we laugh, we laugh together. They are real, and they show up, and that makes them perfect to me.
Love and family are a choice. How much you choose to get from both is up to you. I made my choice. Love and family are none-negotiable.
Mel & Trinity 