I arrived in LA on Monday at lunchtime and joined two of my colleagues in our LA office for lunch, which was great. I never made it to our Denver office so I was happy to made it to the LA office.
The AirBnB where I have been staying is only about 10 miles from our LA office which was rather lucky as the traffic in LA is mental! It’s worse than London, and that’s saying something, only most of the roads are between 3-5 lanes in either direction. Luckily for me it is a lot cooler here i.e. 29 degrees opposed to the 40+ degrees I had over the weekend. I was very grateful about that!
My colleague, Craig, suggested that I drive up to Griffith Observatory to watch the sun set, so that’s what I did, after ‘checking into’ the AirBnB and taking the panniers off my bike. I knew that would make things easier in the city. What a great decision that was!
The view from the observatory is lovely! The pollution is however quite noticeable from up there so you need to ignore that bit. I was up there for quite some time enjoying an ice cream and watching the sun set over the Hollywood Hills with the Hollywood sign in clear sight. I’ve included a photo below but there are a lot more on my Mel & Trinity Facebook page.
There were two main reasons I decided to stop off in LA. The first was to see our LA office and the second was to join a group called the East Side Moto Babes for their Wednesday night sunset ride, which started at 7pm. As such, I had the day free to explore LA. As I did all the main sights when I was here with my bestie, Angela, about 6 years ago, I was interested in a nice scenic ride. I decided to head over to the coast and see how far north I could go in the afternoon so that I could be back in town for 7pm.
It turns out that you don’t go that far in LA in 5 hours. I got as far as Ventura, having come in from Mulholland Drive (I just had to do that) and then onto the Pacific Coast Highway 1 towards Santa Barbara. I stopped off at Starbucks in Malibu because I needed caffeine. Boy did I get it!
I had such a head rush from the caffeine that I was singing and giggling all the way up Highway 1 (I’ve included a photo of the highway below). Part of it as the caffeine and part of it was trying to get over the woman that was sitting next to me in Starbucks. She was unreal. Witnessing her dealing with the ladies behind the counter and then dealing with someone on the phone had me in shock. The worst thing is that I don’t think she realises how obnoxious she is. I couldn’t but laugh (in slight horror) at the whole situation.
There was a nice little surprise when I was approaching Ventura (yes I was thinking Ace Ventura which made me giggle one more), as I came across a missile park just outside of the Point Mugu Naval Air Station.
My first thought was pure excitement but as I walked around a slightly sad feeling came over me. All I could think was what a waste that all this energy and resources went into destroying lives. What could we have achieved if we were trying to build lives instead? That would be energy and resources worth spending.
The drive back to where I was staying took 3 hours from Malibu. It’s a 35 mile ride. I therefore had a lot of time to think during my ride.
I had woken up in such a good mood yet something about the day just wasn’t working for me. I was feeling unsettled. This feeling was echoed in the evening when I joined the East Side Moto Babes for their sunset ride. They were having fun and whizzing in and out of the traffic and all I was thinking was, ‘This isn’t what I want’. I therefore headed home early.
After a lot more thinking last night I realised that there is nothing wrong with LA, the issue is that my experience of LA is not the story I want to tell, and I’ll explain what I mean by this below.
My journey really started on the 9th of December 2013 I met someone who would change my world forever.
I fell in love with the most beautiful human being I have ever met. For the first time in my life I looked into the eyes of someone and knew I wanted a family. I later realised that I had always wanted a family but I had been too scared I’d mess things up. I wasn’t scared anymore. I couldn’t wait for the rest of my life to start.
As fate would have it though, my feelings were not reciprocated, so I had been handed a bitter sweet gift. Finding out I wanted to have children but losing the person I wanted to have a family with.
My relationship sadly didn’t work out but what I realised was the person I want to be for my children if I’m ever lucky enough to have them. I want to be the person who could be brave and strong for them and teach them how to explore, dream and discover. i want to be the person who can teach them to live a life based on love and not fear (something I wasted way too much of my life doing).
My motorcycle trip, the wonderful people I have met, and the amazing things I have seen are the many stories I hope to one day share with my children.
This is the dream I am chasing.